Robin, I'm so sorry to hear about your father. I watched my mother take pills and drugs day after day, until she overdosed, my father beat me most of my life, and then I watched my grandmother die infront of my from congestive heart failure, nothing I could really do to prevent these things from happening, so can relate to your situation. I'm sorry about your financial state. I've been in poverty all my life, still am, so I know how rough that can be. I really wish people wouldn't claim your work as their own, you truely are a gifted programmer, and I appreciate everything you've done for us as a community. I do hope your father gets well and you get a good paying career, where you can live without poverty.
Hope you get the best.
-ShawnyBoy